Reassurance

How much you value regular signs of care and confirmation that things are fine.

Measured by the Closeness and Communication test. Scores run from 0 to 100.

Low scores (under 40): Comfortable with quiet

You generally trust that things are fine without being told. That keeps you calm during quiet stretches, though others may not always know when you would appreciate a word of comfort.

Balanced scores (40 to 60)

You like an occasional check-in but can cope with silence. A little warmth goes a long way, and you can usually tell when a gap in contact means nothing.

High scores (over 60): Values check-ins

Regular signs of care matter to you, and a long silence can leave you unsure where you stand. Saying what kind of contact helps, such as a quick message or a weekly call, lets others meet you there.

Related traits

• Closeness
  How comfortable you are with emotional openness and depending on people.
• Independence
  How much personal space and time alone you need within close relationships.
• Directness
  How readily you say what you think or want when it might cause friction.
• Harmony
  How high a priority you give to keeping the mood calm and everyone comfortable.

Sources and method

This is a short self-report about everyday relationship habits. It captures rough tendencies, not fixed traits, and your habits can shift with the person, the season of life and the stakes. Different people may bring out different sides of you, so treat the result as a starting point for conversation, not a label. These are everyday habits, not attachment styles or a relationship diagnosis.

Neither end of a dimension is better. Each comes with strengths and costs. For self-reflection and entertainment only.